Friday, December 25, 2015

"God Bless Us, Everyone"

Admittedly, many of my posts could be construed as being rather cynical and sarcastic. I readily own the sarcasm, but would take some issue with the cynicism. Exposing the futility and hypocrisy in Christendom is not cynicism - it's realism.

Be that as it may, let this "positive" post be my gift to all who read it. Rest assured however, I will be ladling out healthy portions of "cynicism" soon enough.

Fortunately, the Christmas season still has a "magical" feel to it, and this feel has nothing to do with buying and selling stuff. It has all to do with family, memories, goodwill, and deference to our Lord and Savior: Jesus Christ. It is only through these blessings that we recognize God's love toward us. Blessings such as family, friends, food, music, visits, snow (where applicable), and church take on more meaning during the this season.

The "magic" is especially sweet for believers at this time of year; even the unsaved can get caught up in it (often, in spite of their own ignorance). The "magic" I refer to is the dynamic of thinking of others first and the spirit of giving that blossoms during the Christmas Season. The ignorance I refer to is of not understanding the genesis (pun intended), that spurs these "glad tidings". It's not tradition, or how you were raised, or the true "goodness" in people surfacing (you're kidding, right?!). It is that God has not allowed man to totally push him out of the picture, and therefore, Satan does not have free reign. He certainly roams, but he does not reign.

Most of the year God demonstrates his Grace and Presence via believers who live according to his commandments. During the Christmas Season he lets unbelievers in on the act. Obviously, not everyone gets into it. We're not in Paradise yet, so "...yes Virginia, there really is a Grinch." But you have to admit, the overall tone is much nicer.

We've all heard "...God so loved the world...", but during Christmas we get more of the "world loving God". Much of it may be posturing and based on sentiment more than anything else, but I still enjoy the vibe! So, tell someone "Merry Christmas", but remember that we all can claim the most awesome gift ever given: Jesus Christ. All we have to do is receive Him. If you haven't, ask, and start reading the instruction manual (it's called the Bible).

Saturday, December 5, 2015

Thing's Aren't Always As They Seem - Pt 4

As Dolty discovered, some of these folks were headed to restaurants for lunch. He thought it odd that they would patronize a business operating on the Lord's Day, let alone behave as they did. The group he followed complained about everything, from the wait to be seated, take the order, bring the food, bring the check, pick-up the check, and bring the receipt. They also didn't like the waitress, condition of the utensils (water spots), or the food itself. As we've learned, Dolty is no Rhodes Scholar, but even he could see the irony in this situation. Shouldn't God's people be thankful for even the bare essentials, let alone the blessing of being able to enjoy luxuries in life - like dining out?

"Hah, Dolty mused, "they're upset by spots on their silverware, wait till they come see me!"

As he continued observing the different behaviors, the one constant thread that kept emerging was how people spent the rest of the day. Many of them disconnected from any semblance of it being the the Lord's Day as soon as they left the church parking lot. There were no more thoughts of holiness as they went off eating, shopping, visiting, or enjoying some kind of entertainment. Maybe they went home to do chores or watch movies or TV. Many families went off in different directions to pursue their own interests. Making things even better in Dolty's eyes was what the self-proclaimed Christians were doing and watching. They were cussing and using the Lord's name in vain, being selfish, angry, watching and listening to things promoting all things worldly such as illicit sex, profanity, covetousness, immorality, violence; generally behaving no different than non-believers.

So, Dolty learned, as they say, "statistics are for losers." The polls may indicate that you can't turn around without bumping into a Christian, but in reality it's more likely you can't turn around without bumping into a hypocrite.

The End

Sorry folks, forgot to indicate this was the conclusion of the story. Thanks for indulging me. I'll be back posting per usual very soon.

Saturday, November 28, 2015

Things Aren't Always As They Seem-Part 3

Dolty wasn't familiar with all these words, but they were talking about sports, clothes, food, people (a lot - most of this talk was not very nice), cats, dogs, jobs, money, movies, and a bunch of other stuff. What he thought was weird (but encouraging), was that nobody seemed to be talking abut theological issues at all - let alone salvation or Christ.

Dolty thought, "When would people discuss these things, if not in this environment?"

It was like he was hanging out at a mall food court. The perfect microcosm of the nation: you had covetousness, gluttony, blasphemy, lust, pride, and many other wonderful vices in a nice, little package. Oh, how Dolty loved hanging out there!

"But this might even be better!" he reasoned. You still had all the juicy sins, but they're given a cloak of respectability since they're "Christians" in a church setting.

"What wonderful deception," he admired, "wish I had thought of it. They're downright hypocrites! Hippos are awesome! They probably screw up as many potential true believers as I do," he giggled.
"And this was only one church! Multiply by the number of like-congregations and you come up with some fantastic numbers!"

Now he was really understanding why the boss had no concern over the polls indicating the large percentage of Christians in America. If this same size was representative (and it was), there was no way the numbers were even close to accurate.

Demons (especially dim-witted ones), were only vaguely familiar with the Bible. But they all know that the entirety of scripture is true, once again borne out by Dolty's discovery and Matthew 7:13-14, pointing out many humans may be fooling themselves regarding their salvation.

So, things were really looking up (or down, as Demons liked to say), for Dolty. He had job security and could thumb his nose at the polls.

He figured he pretty much knew everything he needed regarding the erroneous statistics and was looking forward to getting back to tormenting lost souls in Hell. Technically he was only a temporary tormentor, filling in for senior Demons from time to time, but he savored those moments.

However, Satan appeared and burst his bubble when he told him he wasn't quite finished.

"The real cherry on the sundae (pun intended), is observing them after they leave church to enjoy the rest of the Lord's Day," Satan explained.

"You mean it gets better?" asked Dolty.

"Oh, yeah," replied Satan.

With that, Dolty found himself watching people leaving church and getting into their cars. He found it interesting how many of these folks spent more on vehicles than much of the world's population made in a year. Thank goodness (er, badness), due to these people coveting new cars with all the "gizmos" (when an older, much less costly, but reliable, vehicle would suffice), a lot less money was going toward the advancement of God's Kingdom.

STAY TUNED FOR THE FINAL INSTALLMENT!

Sunday, November 22, 2015

Things Aren't Always As They Seem - Pt 2

"Where do I start?" Dolty asked.

"Well, I could send you to Joel Osteen's church, but that would be too easy. Driscoll and Warren are out too; even a moron could see these places are full of unsaved people. You need to go to a church that, at least, looks authentic."

Satan continued, "I've got the perfect place. It's like thousands across the United States. It looks like a church, they sing traditional stuff, people dress nice, well, better than a typical Walmart customer anyway. They hold pleasant conversations and generally agree that Osteen, Driscoll, and Warren are way off track. Most even suggest that there actually is some change of behavior that accompanies salvation. Fortunately for us, what behavior and to what degree is often a bone of contention. It's in a place like this where your confidence in the downward slide of society will be restored, and the silliness of these polls will be evident."

Dolty blinked, then blinked again. He wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer, and this was a lot to digest. Of course, he had heard those names before (Warren, Osteen, etc.), and realized that they sent them a lot of eternal guests. However, it was still a frightening prospect to be in their realm.

Then, before you could say "Bob's Your Uncle", Dolty found himself in the parking lot of a church. He had visited the "world" before, and learned how people behaved in many situations, but this was the first time he was allowed to be in a strictly "Christian" environment. None of the human senses could detect his presence (unless he allowed), so he moved about freely and undetected.

The first thing he noticed was how most dressed, specifically, not much different than the rest of the "world". You could go to any Walmart (he had spent a lot of time in various Walmarts; it was such a fertile ground for studying people), and find people similarly dressed. In studying the "enemy" (Christ), and his followers, he had seen photos where church-goers looked so different. Men and women wore what was described as, "Sunday clothes". What constituted these may vary somewhat depending on denomination, income, geography,and other factors, but they were definitely different from what he was witnessing (no pun intended).

Next, he observed how prevalent coffee was. He actually wondered if it was some sort of requirement for "membership" as there was hardly anyone over 20 that didn't have a cup (I have to admit to being a card-carrying member myself).

"Maybe that's why they wear Walmart clothes," Dolty reasoned. "So they don't spill that stuff  they're always sloshing around on their nice clothes."

However, here was just another example of "Christians" being no different than others who are in bondage to worldly vices. And, as Dolty noted, "If nothing else, you'd think Christians would be more sympathetic towards others battling their own addictions, since they can't stop using a drug that stains their teeth, upsets their stomach, affects their sleep, and certainly isn't cheap."

As he moved through the congregation, maybe the most striking realization was the conversations that took place (or the ones that didn't).

Stay tuned for the next installment!

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Things Aren't Always As They Seem - Part 1

Well, my daughter warned me that keeping up with a blog would not be easy. As if time doesn't fly by enough, it's amazing how tough it is to post something monthly.

Anyway, I'm trying something a little different this time. I'm going to post a short story in installments (even if I had the time, which at my typing speed is a lot), carpal tunnel would probably kill me before I finished.

With obvious influences (and thanks), to C.S. Lewis and Frank Capra; off we go.

It was another hot day in Hell (much worse than the 15 years we spent in Florida), as Satan was sipping his coffee (I knew the devil had to be behind caffeine!). As Satan employed an open door policy, his demons were often dropping in with questions or concerns. This day his first visitor was Dolty.

"Well sir, I guess you're a bit disappointed with how things are going in America these days."

Satan put down is Disneyworld coffee mug and inquired, "What are you babbling about?"

"Well, with such a large percentage of Christians up there, it's gotta be a bummer," Dolty explained. "You know, all that hard work gone to waste."

Depending on different factors, polls could indicate that as many as 80% of Americans identify themselves as Christian.

"Listen stupid," Satan began, "those polls don't mean squat. You have to consider the source. With that group you could probably produce a poll indicating most believe in unicorns."

In fact, there are most likely many "christians" who believe in unicorns, but I digress.

Dolty winced, it wasn't pleasant being rebuked by the Prince of Darkness.

Satan continued, "Most of these people don't know what a real Christian is - let alone are one."

"How do you know this stuff, sir?"

Satan rolled his eyes. "I have a little familiarity with the Bible," he emphasized.

Dolty hated it when Satan was sarcastic, but considering he was the Prince of Darkness, that was probably one of his most positive character traits.

"In fact," the Devil continued, "I was in the inner-circle up there and learned a lot about authentic Christianity before I go the boot."

"Can you tell the difference between a Christian and a non-Christian?," asked Dolty.

"Aha Dolty, just when I was beginning to think you were brain-dead. That's the $64,000 question."

Dolty actually smiled, which was frowned upon for obvious reasons, but Satan let it pass.

"You see I can tell the difference." (It was a pretty important job skill for someone in his position), "but let's find out if you can."

Dolty was pretty sure he didn't like where this was going.

"What I'm going to do is give you some Bible verses and send you up there to see if we need to "worry" about these polls."

Now the slow-witted demon knew he didn't like this. He never did like the humans he "met". They were such whiners (although, under the circumstances; who could blame them). Additionally, they had always "come to him" (in a manner of speaking). It was creepy to imagine going up there. He was downright terrified of the Bible. He knew it had "good" parts, full of murder, lying, adultery, and all kind of sin, but he heard it contained scary stories about the "end times".

Similar to the early Catholic Church, when only priests had access to the Bible; only Satan had access to the Bible in Hell and knew the Pit was the ultimate destination for him and his minions. So truly, for all the other demons; ignorance was bliss.

Satan took a carefully prepared biblical outline of salvation and handed it to Dolty. It highlighted such verses as: James 2:14-17, John 14:15, James 1:22, Matthew 7:16, and many others that emphasize a true believer's responsibility in bearing good fruit.


STAY TUNED FOR THE NEXT INSTALLMENT!



Sunday, October 4, 2015

Rearranging Deck Chairs on the Titanic

As I'm a big fan of Christian apologetics and love defending the faith, I think now would be a good time to employ "self-apologetics" as it applies to my blog. That is: where do I get off espousing my views on these subjects.

First and foremost, they may be my views, but they are neither original or exclusive. I did not "discover" them as Newton did gravity, and there are a multitude who share them, as I learned through many hours of study over the last several years. In fact, part of my joy in these posts is being able to pass on wisdom from great men of God gleaned from Grace Gems.

This is a marvelous website containing sermons, stories, speeches, from many and varied brilliant Christian men and women from previous centuries. Although there are exceptions, most are from the 17th thru 19th centuries, with the most "modern" being Arthur Pink (circa 1940's). The famous (Spurgeon), to the obscure (at least to me), are represented. The amount of material by some of the more prolific writers alone is amazing. Multiply by the amount of authors and you pretty much cover all subjects: high theological to practical living. It's such a wonderful example of timeless truths as these people deal with so many of the issues we still deal with today.

As Ecclesiastes tells us "...there is nothing new under the sun." It's very interesting seeing this reality when you read of the concerns of these writers from the last 2-300 years. They're the same ones we have today: degradation of society, lukewarm (at best), churches, false prophets, and Second Timothy Christians.

One of the unique qualities of this site is the clarity of thought expressed by those not distracted by modern society. They were not waylaid by cell phones, e-mail, texts, twitter, face book, etc. Pretty much (excepting a letter), you weren't interacting with someone unless they were physically there. Amazing things can be accomplished with uninterrupted concentration. Heck - you need uninterrupted concentration to read their stuff!

Enough of the plug for Grace Gems; let's see if I can pull this post back on track.

The crux of my "right to write" is contained within this sentence. It is my (and yours), right to express thoughts. This is not just reserved for celebrities, highly educated, or "experts". Especially as these people often expound on subjects/issues with little more than opinion, as the areas are outside the realm of their knowledge/experience. Additionally, what constitutes an "expert" can be hard to discern. Which is all to say, everyone has the right to express thought; if it's done in the proper manner. Proper, being a method that is respectful of those who disagree, whereas they can easily avoid hearing or seeing your presentation (i.e., no yelling or bullhorns, bumper stickers, or T-shirts that portray profanity,pornography, or anything else clearly designed to incite. A blog is a great forum as it has to be actively sought out and purposely perused, all the while with the option of "clicking away" at anytime, or leaving a comment.

The blog also allows me to shine some light in the ever-encroaching darkness and spread salt on decaying society; can we ever have too much of that? Yes, to a certain degree, this is rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic, but we are called to do so by Christ. The world is sinking into sin and ultimately will go under, but God commands us to "arrange" as many lives for Christ as we can while we're still afloat.

I must admit to the enjoyment in writing, especially when it is being read by others. In the movie Chariots of Fire, the actor portraying Eric Liddell says "...when I run, I feel his pleasure." Well, when I write, I feel his pleasure. I'm sure my writing is not as world class as Liddell's running, but the principle applies. Hopefully, in time, others too may get some pleasure from my writing.

Chariots of Fire (yes, in my opinion, one of the best movies ever made), has another scene where Eric Liddell is discussing with his sister why he wants to run in the Olympics, and then, go to China for missionary work. Telling her that God made him for a purpose (missionary work), he says that God also made him fast, and to not use that blessing for God's glory would be a sin. Again, not to equate my the quality of my gift with Liddell's, but I do feel a certain compulsion or duty to use it for God's purpose. I don't consider it a gift of evangelism as my blog is directed to believers, but more for encouragement, as my hope is that some will be energized knowing there are others that feel as they do.

Let's continue telling others about Christ, and what it means to be a Follower. For those of us who are actually being salt in these decaying times; never stop. God's mercy through Christians is why there is still much to be thankful for in this terrible world.

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Walk on the Narrow Side

This admittedly covers some of the same ground as my June 15th post, but it's an important topic that can be approached from many different angles.

Bumper-sticker Christians are everywhere: "...those displaying a form of godliness, but denying it's power." This is 2 Tim. 3:5, one of my memory verses. So many like to make a "Christian fashion statement" in the form of stickers, plaques, t's, music/movies, and yes, even tattoos. However, these examples are just as superficial as popular brand-name logos (Aeropostale, Polo, UnderArmour). These outward signs are more form than substance, just as a "sophisticated" label on clothes doesn't necessarily indicate a sophisticated person; shiny fish plaques on a vehicle don't always indicate an authentic Christian behind the wheel. And these are just everyday shlubs; forget about all the high profile politicians, celebrities, and athletes making public professions and then committing all forms of sin. I'm not talking about the sin all truly saved people will still commit due to our fallen nature. This is mostly unintentional and emotional such as wanting to smash your computer with a cinder block because every time you turn around it's infected with a new virus. Clearly, getting angry (dare I say hating!), an inanimate object is not the standard for a follower of Jesus, but it's quite different than willfully pursuing a sinful lifestyle. Paraphrasing A. W. Tozer: we should not expect perfection, but perfect intention from a believer. The standard is perfection that you know is unattainable, but as a believer you're still disappointed when you fall short. You want Jesus to be Lord of your life - not just Lord of your salvation (as the pretenders do). These "professors" deny the power of the gospel by living reprobate lives.

These reasons aforementioned are why I don't even like to refer to myself as a Christian. These days, it conjures up all manner of images; from stupid, timid sheep; to dogmatic, bombastic hypocrites; none very complimentary. Not that I'm out for the world's approval, but I want to be persecuted for the right reasons: that I am an unapologetic follower of Jesus, who is not afraid to identify and avoid sin, and those who wallow in it. And make no mistake: if you claim to be a Christian, but live like the unsaved; you don't understand salvation (specifically, you don't understand the role of  repentance in salvation). By the time I explain to others that I'm a Christian, but not that kind of a Christian, their eyes are rolling back into their head. Not only has Christian lost it's meaning; it's lost it's edge. It doesn't reflect the guts needed to walk the narrow path. So, when the subject comes up, or people ask if I'm religious (yikes!), I like to say I'm a Jesus-follower. This is much less nebulous than Christian - heck, it rules out a large percentage of "Christians". I want to be that "weirdo" that doesn't drink alcohol, tell (or laugh), at dirty jokes, use profanity, leer at women, watch inappropriate "entertainment", listen to the wrong music, gossip, etc., but not in the sense of being a prude or stick-in-the-mud. I want to be recognized as a fun and pleasant guy who enjoys a good time. Not looking to be the "life of the party", but to communicate that there is joy in Christ. I'd like others to know you can have a good time - devoid of sinful behavior. 

In a weird irony, claiming to be a Christian can put one in good stead with the world. That is if your "Christianity" is Osteen/Oprah-esque: non-confrontational, affirming, trendy, smart and avoids all the unpleasantness of sin, hell, repentance - you know! In other words, it's not authentic, biblical Christianity; it's pseudo-religious, feel-good, I'm OK - you're OK baloney. 

As history runs out on this little planet God made for us, I don't anyone confused as to where I stand when it comes to Christ. There is no grey area in this regard. If you are not wholly for Christ; you are wholly for Satan. Stating that I am a Jesus-follower should be a good clue. 

It's been said, "...what's in a name?" Sometimes, a lot!

Saturday, August 29, 2015

Women on Harleys

I'm not going to lie, I've been reluctant to write this post as (contrary to what some may think), my goal is not to anger as many people as possible (especially other Christians). But three reasons compel me to forge ahead.

First: The Bible supports it
Second: I have lived it
Third: A movie we own emboldened me

The third reason requires some elaboration. It's "A Man Called Peter". Set in WWII America, it is the life story of preacher Peter Marshall. This is not going to be a movie review (my daughter does wonderful reviews on her blog), but anyone who loves Jesus should enjoy the movie. Anyway, there is a scene where a college age Catherine (Marshall's future wife), makes a speech at a youth rally. The crux of her talk is that women have lost much more than they have gained attaining "equality" with men. I don't know if the speech is authentic, but the content is tremendous in it's Biblical view of womanhood.

So, here we go. In a perfect world (i.e. Biblical), women would be content at home supporting their husband, raising a family; generally creating a loving environment. The home should be a Godly Haven (especially in these times), where a man can escape the strife of modern society. Creating this environment is certainly a full-time job. As the Bible tells us: the woman who can manage this is more precious than jewels. My wife has done this the near 20 years we have been married. Believe me when I say she is more precious than jewels (or newer cars, more toys, fancy vacations).

Of course there are exceptions due to life's circumstances; not just lifestyle choices. I believe these would fall into four main categories:

a husband can't work
a husband won't work
a woman is single
children have moved out on their own and husband agrees

In any of these scenarios a woman could enter the workforce to whatever degree it didn't adversely affect her primary responsibility as a homemaker (by the way, homemaker should carry more esteem than CEO. Women who are good at their job are far more common than women who are homemakers; let alone good ones!). There are shades of grey within these categories, but I don't have time to discuss them here. Suffice to say I understand some women must work.

Stating that, let me get back to why that should be the exception; not the rule.

 The Bible clearly portrays this arrangement. Women are described as "weaker vessels". This is weaker as in delicate; as a fine porcelain object is more delicate than a common wooden object. This weaker vessel is to be protected and highly valued - not thrown out into our contemptuous world to battle it out with men providing for their families.

What women have mostly become emancipated from in this post-modern society is the pedestal they were on. Why should men "gaze up" to the woman on the pedestal? She's no longer there. She's next to him at work, at the bar, at the gym. Heck, she's sitting right next to him at the traffic light on her Harley (sporting her own tattoos, no doubt). All too often these days she's not the "fairer sex" offering God's counterbalance to men who generally trend toward the brutish. She's right there encouraging and participating in this behavior; whether it's laughing at smutty jokes or enjoying cage fighting. Women have come down to our level; that's not good. I've heard statistics indicating that women are not only earning degrees at rates surpassing men, but also suffering from heart disease and strokes. It sure seems like the trade-off is not worth it.

So why? Because over the last 50-60 years women have been sold a bill of goods; being a wife and mother isn't enough. Of course the unsaved weren't hard to convince, but even believers have bought into it. I know couples (speaking of self-described believers), who  both work (often both high-paying jobs), for no other reason than to enjoy a higher standard of living. They could comfortably live on the husbands income if they would fore go some "luxuries" such as brand new cars, newer, bigger houses, expensive and/or frequent vacations, expensive clothes, toys, etc. Granted, luxury is a subjective based on income, but if you can't afford it on the man's income after paying bills and tithing; it could be a luxury.

The template we followed as a married couple was established in the early 1900's as people moved from farms and men started working away from home. Women stayed home and created that soothing environment that a husband could look forward to after "slogging it out" in the world of commerce and manufacturing.

As my parents, we started off in a small, older house, in a not-so-ritzy part of town. We drove used cars, didn't take many vacations, and had to adhere to a budget (especially after our first child). We were (and are), happy and wanted for nothing. A lot of people were surprised we were able to pull this off (and I bet they would have been shocked if they knew how little my income actually was).

Over the years, God has blessed us immeasurably, but the two constants have been the ability to provide for our family and a loving wife/mother who understands there is no higher calling for a a woman than to maintain a Godly home for her family. She could have chosen the common path, as she has a Bachelor's and could have made good money in the education field. Thankfully, God planted in us the desire for the eternal and imperishable rather than the temporal and perishable (i.e. stuff).

I am not saying Christians can't enjoy material pleasures or have to live in the seedy part of town and drive rust-buckets. I am saying that a husband and wife should fulfill their God-ordained roles first, then feel free to enjoy whatever material blessings the Lord allows them.

In addition, when a wife becomes a mother, the imperative nature of all of this is heightened. As children are gifts from God, raising them Biblically is a 24/7 responsibility for the parents - especially the mother. No component of this should be left to strangers (i.e. daycare). We have two teens that my wife has home-schooled, so not only have we controlled curriculum, we have been able to control environment and reinforce values until that inevitable time when they function more in the "world", but hopefully don't become more "of the world".

My desire is that this is an encouragement for those sharing our experience, or those who may be considering the option.


God made us man and woman to compliment each other, not compete against each other.

Sunday, August 9, 2015

Hater? I Think Not

Based on views, I feel I should apologize for not posting sooner; based on comments I'm not sure it really matters. Being a husband, father (of teens), still working, along with taking care of the normal "stuff" and trying to keep myself in shape with recreation; it gets tough to carve out the time for a post. I like to think that my thoughts are shared by others, but with no comments, it's hard to tell - and a bit discouraging. A few brief comments would go a long way toward encouragement. Anyway, enough of the whining; on to the subject at hand.

I have been accused of being a "hater" when I express disapproval of those who conduct themselves contrary to God's Will. First off - I hate the word hater. We didn't need a new word. We already had critic, judge, cynic, complainer, etc. But even if I accepted the word used by others; it's not accurate. Definitions of hater indicate that the one "hating" has no real basis or reason for their "hate". Well, if I am using God's standard, how could there be a more solid basis? When the Bible uses the word hate it indicates God's direct disapproval or how a believer should react to anything in this category. Essentially, a believer should hate what God hates. So, that's where I'm coming from when I post about the general state of our society.

So yes, I hate it when the fruit of the spirit enumerated in Galatians 5:23 is scarce, but reprobate behavior is everywhere (most disturbingly in the churches). I don't expect to eliminate  it as we are told in these times there will be mockers and those who only want to hear what they want to (certainly not what God says), but we can certainly refrain from participating. 

I used to participate in the same revelries as most of society, but when I became saved the Holy Spirit convicted me that changes were needed. Inappropriate movies were disposed of (not just put away: trashed (gratuitous violence/sex/language is inappropriate for any follower of Christ - young or old), alcohol was removed from our house (a drink may be alright; a drunk is never alright), music promoting/lauding bad behavior was avoided, and similar type
conversation (especially gossip), was ignored. This is no small feat in this age. Even among professing believers, we have been considered a bit extreme. However debatable that may be, I would much rather err on the cautious side. Even as believers, we can never actually attain or maintain God's standards (try the Ten Commandments on for size), but by setting our sights on them we should come a lot closer than most do. So many live out the philosophy of seeing how close they can get to fire (sin), and not get burned. The prudent course is stay as far away as you can from the fire, then there is no doubt as to whether you're scorched or not. As 1 Thessalonians exhorts: don't even give the impression that you're involved in evil.

When self-proclaimed Christians "hang out" with unbelievers, they have to be extra careful to be set-apart; to be salt and light, not just go along to get along. Some situations are just going to be off-limits. Yeah, you can (I have), go with unbelieving friends to a place that serves alcohol (I personally gave up alcohol 5 years ago; I want to always be able to give Jesus my best, and I don't want to be a stumbling block), but you better be real sure how to conduct yourself. There is no way to justify (knowingly),  going to an inappropriate movie, or anyplace that allows or promotes that kind of behavior. You won't often find the fruit of the Spirit in environments such as these. If you find yourself in one; you better exhibit the fruit.

As true believers, we don't hate anyone in the sense that the world means it. We truly hate the sin, not the sinner; whereas those of the world truly hate the sinner and usually couldn't give a fig about the sin. They hate those of different skin color, religion, economic/social status, music taste, clothing taste, etc. And since the whole unrepentant lot of them are sinners, it never enters the equation. Christians on the other hand, hate the sin that keeps the person wallowing in it from Christ. We want the best possible for everyone: a relationship with Jesus Christ. 

I hate that there is way too much of the wrong hate in the world, and not nearly enough of the right hate. And that's because I love what Jesus Christ did on the Cross for me (and you).

Saturday, July 4, 2015

Pipe Down, Will Ya

Not that I didn't already have more material to cover than time to cover it, but thanks to the United States Supreme Court I now find myself joining the homosexual (not gay), marriage fray.

First, let me make some things very clear so as to make my following rant easier to follow:


  • Tolerateto allow (something that is bad, unpleasant, etc.) to exist, happen, or be done - Merriam Webster definition
  • Gay: going back to the 14th Century; it meant happy, gleeful, bright and beautiful. Sometime around the early 50's homosexuals started using it as a substitute for the word homosexual; stop using it for your dysfunctional lifestyle. In fact while we're at it, stop misusing the word queer.
  • Affirm: to express dedication to  - Merriam Webster
  • MarriageTherefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh - God
  • The rainbow was originally created by God to represent his covenant with Noah (a good thing). Subsequently, most people (especially children), enjoyed rainbow representations as associated with fun, whimsical, and harmless events and things (seems, especially t-shirts). Subsequent to that, homosexuals decided to hijack the rainbow in all myriad of representations to be practically the "trademark" of their lifestyle (a bad thing). Find something else to plaster all over your stuff. 
  • I have always tolerated homosexuality (see above). I have friends who are homosexuals (and friends who are heterosexuals - let's just be clear)
  • I will never affirm homosexuality
  • Homosexual marriage is an oxymoron

Moving on.

Here's the deal. Homosexuality is a sin. So is adultery, fornication, stealing, and many other things - with me so far? The fact that I declare such does not make me a homophobe; any more than declaring my distaste for adultery makes me afraid of or hate those who cheat on their spouses. Radical homosexuals use this tact and many others to force affirmation for their sinful lifestyle and the silencing of all who disapprove.

 They equate their "struggle" with the civil rights issues of the past (and yes, I have talked to a Black person about this). Oh really? Black Americans had to deal with real intolerance due to their race, not a sinful lifestyle choice. "...but we were born this way!" NO YOU WEREN'T - and that's science, not religion talking! I'm sure some develop same-sex attraction due to outside factors or even a biological tendency toward same-sex attraction, but this is not born "that way" in the sense of immutability. But just as an alcoholic has to fight every day for sobriety, or an ill-tempered person has to constantly work on that, or a man has to wrestle with his desire for other women other than his wife, the person with same-sex attraction has to find a way to avoid that temptation. But let's get away from the psychology here and discuss the sociology.

The societal model (the affirmation of homosexuality, if not celebration), being promoted as new and enlightened is really the issue. There always have, and (until Jesus returns), always will be homosexuals. And they, like any other fallen sinner (that would be all of us), should be allowed to pursue life, liberty, and happiness. But NOT at the expense of others. What I mean is this: We can all agree that people should be allowed these pursuits as long as they don't infringe on the functioning of a polite society (let alone a Christian one). Therefore we don't run around like we're in a theocracy, smoking out adulterers, fornicators, blasphemers, etc., and throwing them in lock-up. As long as they pay their bills and drive on the right side of the road, we can pretty much co-exist. Their problem is with Christ; not me and you. But here's what sets the homosexuals apart: they are forcing (trying), us to applaud their sin. Last I checked, adulterers, fornicators and blasphemers weren't running around (not yet anyway, maybe their waiting to see how the homosexuals do), forcing everyone to affirm their crummy choices.

We're getting more shows, commercials, events, all the time that are promoting this lifestyle. And frankly (in the words of the immortal Capt. Binghamton), "... I could just scream!" Well - we should scream. As Christians we should be "screaming" in our actions. Whether it comes up in conversation, or how we spend our money or our votes; we should be bold in standing against this onslaught. I know we're not going to win the fight, but Paul doesn't call us to win, but to fight. We have to focus on winning the right to object to this abomination as strenuously as they hail it. At the end of the day, I don't care whether homosexual unions are deemed marriages or not (heck, there are plenty of heterosexuals who are joined civilly - not in the eyes of God, and we call it marriage), because these declarations by men mean nothing. Would I prefer another word for these "situations", absolutely. Call them unions, partnerships, agreements; just let us keep marriage (and don't forget to give back gay, queer, and rainbow). What I really care about is being able to not only disapprove of your lifestyle, but to call it sin as God does. 

Really, just get over yourselves. Life is not one big "Gay Pride" float where you're all dancing around in your underwear. If you are living as a homosexual, authentic Bible believing Christians have better things to do than worry about your choice. You're just another sinner that needs Christ. Your need is no greater than the heterosexual sinner; you have no special bulls-eye that Christians are aiming at. Stop bringing the fight to us and we will co-exist just fine.

Finally, let me state that it's safe to say not every homosexual is behind this radical agenda. I'm sure there is a wide range, from those who just want to continue in their choices and be left alone to those who are uncomfortable in the life, but aren't sure what to do. We Christians are to love all; including homosexuals. What this means ultimately is to desire to share Christ with them. It does not mean accepting their choice as legitimate. 

We have to agree to disagree, with love - not malice.
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Sunday, June 21, 2015

I'm a Christian, You're a Christian...

Back in the "day" there was a Dr. Pepper commercial that proudly stated, "I'm a Pepper, he's a Pepper, she's a Pepper...". Sure conveyed the idea that there were a lot of Peppers.

These days the same sort of dynamic seems to apply to people claiming to be Christians. Just run around saying you're one - and you're in! Just kind of "act like one" (most of the time), and you're in! What I mean by "acting" like one is just that. So many feel (or want you to feel), that due to their church attendance, owning a Bible (owning is good enough, reading is optional), praying once in a while, being appalled at some behavior that society condones (though, generally justifying abortion in special circumstances), and other proper "christian etiquette", they are saved and going to Heaven. The epitome of this was demonstrated repeatedly when I worked in a county jail. We would screen people upon entry after their arrest and record full name, address, etc. One of the questions was religious affiliation. A large majority would answer Christian, if not specifically their denomination (i.e., Baptist, Lutheran, etc.). It was the perfect microcosm of  the whole of  society. The disconnect between talking the talk, but not walking the walk: I can be a Christian and use profanity, I can be a Christian and watch smutty movies, I can be a Christian and dress anyway I want, I can be a Christian and support homosexual marriage (heck, I can be a homosexual Christian! I can be a fornicating Christian, a thieving Christian - you get the idea). I can be a Christian and spend my money anyway I want.

 Well - no you can't. You're either grieving the Holy Spirit by being a lousy Christian, or you have not experienced genuine conversion. My intention is not to get into a discussion whether a Christian can lose their salvation or not (too many very smart people have come to different conclusions on this), but either way; it's not a good thing to continue living as you please thinking the fish on the rear of your vehicle makes everything square with God.

Yes salvation is through faith alone in what Christ did on the cross. Works of man has nothing to due with it; so as none of us can boast. But this is not synonymous with cheap or free grace. If one's commitment to Christ is authentic, they're going to want and demonstrate change in their life. It may be more apparent in the life of someone living a high-profile sinful life (i.e., a criminal), and less apparent in the life of a law-abiding citizen (unmarried couple sleeping together), but the indwelling Holy Spirit will produce change if the Lord tarries and allows that person to continue drawing breath. In John Jesus tells the woman to go and sin no more and tells us that if we love him, we'll obey his commandments. This is clear indication of what is expected of a true believer.

Many people who refer to themselves as Christian "talk the talk",  but don't "walk the walk". Yes, there are gray areas along the path, and there is even disagreement over what is gray, what is black, and what is white, but I believe that is due mostly to people spending less time in their Bibles discerning God's Word than they devote to watching others doing stupid things on YouTube.

If you don't find yourself a bit out of step with society, or feeling a little odd and out of place from time to time because you wonder if this is quite what a Christian should be a part of; I would examine whether you're as much of the world as the unsaved.

In this instance, being a "Pepper" is probably not a good thing.

Saturday, May 30, 2015

My Generation Baby

Born a Generation Too Late

I’ve often maintained that I was born at least one generation too late. Why? Because I believe as Robert Bork portrayed in his 1996  book,  “Slouching Towards Gomorrah”, that American society is on a fast slide down to “Hell in a hand basket” and I’m sick and tired of it. Selfishly, I would like to have been part of (with my wife and kids), the generation encompassing 1925-1945. This is the last generation that openly, collectively valued God, motherhood/family, and country.

Tom Brokaw calls it the “Greatest Generation”, and I’m not in disagreement. However, I like to focus on it being the last “classy generation”. Just talk to people from that time, or watch movies produced (be very careful about contemporary movies portraying that era), then. Yes, people were just as inherently sinful and in need of Jesus, but often they conducted themselves more like how I would imagine a Christian society would. They dressed nicer, talked nicer, followed rules and etiquette.
Public park summer 1960: men in suits, shirt sleeves and slacks, uniforms ; women in dresses, uniforms; kids dressed appropriately. Modest, sensible dress for the most part. People quietly talking or reading; gentlemen looking out for ladies (perhaps being extra careful of their language around ladies and children).
Public park summer 2015: Sometimes not sure if it’s a man or woman. Dressed (maybe undressed is more accurate), in almost anything. Man or woman: shorts of some kind and varying fits/lengths, t-shirts, ditto; with anything imaginable written or portrayed on it. Tattoos everywhere (I mean everywhere), profanity (this includes women and children), and a large disregard for rules/etiquette.

Of course there are always exceptions, but as a general rule this reality can’t be denied. In 2 Timothy 3 we are told that those of us wanting to live Godly lives will be persecuted. In a sense, these assaults on our senses are a form of persecution. Granted, they don’t compare to the outright physical atrocities committed against Christians in other parts of the world, but they are a subtle spiritual persecution. When you can’t go anywhere with your children without seeing offensive billboards, bumper/window stickers, t-shirts, magazine covers, etc. ad nauseam; you know we're living in a 2 Timothy society.

Edmund Burke is quoted: “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” Ah, how right he was/is! I'm not suggesting that Christians run around defacing billboards, tearing off stickers, and generally confronting people about their boorish behavior (but part of me likes the idea). But voice your disapproval of such things when given the opportunity. If you can, contribute to organizations that fight to maintain decency in society. Yes, it's ultimately a losing battle, but we're called to "...fight the good fight." Fallen man is going to continue to drag society down the slippery slope until Jesus decides:  enough is enough!

Yes, it would have been nice to be part of the "Greatest Generation", but God has seen fit to put me and my family where/when we are. Therefore, we will do all we can to emulate those of that era and bring a little light to a darkening world.

Saturday, May 23, 2015

Say Yes to Marriage

Marriage; sure seems to get talked about, but for the wrong reasons. In years past it was the divorce rate, now that seems to have been supplanted by same-sex marriage discussions. I believe, of course, from Gods Word that divorce is a bad (or maybe a better word would be sad), thing and that "marriage" between people of the same sex is no more legitimate than marriage between someone and their Pomeranian. But be clear that I am not equating these things at all. Divorce is an unfortunate experience that even Christians can experience, whereas, a union not between one man and one woman is not marriage. It's a union, partnership, agreement, mess, etc., but definitely not marriage. But these are issues for another time, as I want to celebrate marriage (reminder: whenever you see marriage without italics in the text, I'm referring to one male/one female, who have made their commitment between God and man in a formal ceremony.

Next month my parents will be celebrating their 58th anniversary, and my wife and I, our 19th. There is nothing that I am more proud of (in a thankful blessed way, not  "...hey, look what I've done!), than being married to such a beautiful, intelligent, and most importantly, Godly woman for these years. No matter how much I screw up in other areas of my life (believe me, it's a long list), I always have that trump card. I am proud of my parents in a similar way. After being married for 19 years, I think I have developed some appreciation of being married as long as they have. Being the eldest of the children, I have remembrance of more of their marriage than my siblings. Although my upbringing was as idyllic as one can be, our family had our share of stresses that could have pushed a husband and wife apart. But they stayed together. From the "worlds" point of view (and mine, before the scales fell away), it would have been easy to suggest that they might be better off apart, than together; fortunately this didn't happen. I believe as a couple stays together over the years, they become more "one flesh" than they were when the vows were exchanged.

My fondest memories of growing up are of times with mom and dad. That's mom and dad concurrently, not consecutively; as in going to see mom and dad, not mom than dad, as is the case in many situations where they have split up. Unquestionably, it is a specific blessing for them that my parents are enjoying a nice life in Florida, and a specific blessing for me and my family that Grandman and Grandpa are a one-stop destination. They have each other and we have them; it doesn't get much better in this life.

As for me, that's easy, my marriage was the best thing that happened to me. I didn't get married and have children (well, not me exactly, but you know), until later than most (much later than some). Often when I would tell others how old I was and the age of my kids they would assume that I was on (at least), my second marriage/family. The easy response was that I am just a "late bloomer", but of course we are all on God's schedule; not ours.

I don't claim to know why or claim any credit for such a wonderful blessing, but I'll tell you that I never take my marriage for granted. This doesn't mean that I'm some perfect husband; that is not even close to the reality. What it does mean, is that in my quieter, most lucid moments, I thank God for the wonderful woman in my life. I like to think that there are more with this perspective than sometimes appears to be the case.

Celebrate marriage! For us guys this means not just taking out the trash and helping with the painting, but talk up marriage. When married men go on about other women (as is invariably the case in my experience), at the very least, don't participate. If those around me perceive that I'm uncomfortable it can often lead to an opportunity to explain why. This will lead back to God's Word on the matter, not to me being some kind of prude (granted, many will equate taking a stand based on Bible as being a prude), but that is a mindset that can't be untangled here. I have made comments indicating that I can't relate to those in unhappy marriages and that it must me a tough way to live. As often as not, this causes a guy to backtrack and tell me that it's not really that bad and he didn't mean what he said. That she actually is a great woman that he appreciates.

The "world" can often lead a man to believe that wife/marriage bashing is the masculine (and expected thing), to do. As with so many other practices; the "world" is a poor role model. Measure all things against God's standard and you may very well find yourself going in a different direction than the masses.

Thank God for your spouse, that He made us man and woman, that we should not be alone.


Sunday, May 17, 2015

Think Before You Ink

I feel like I could post almost everyday, but you know how life gets in the way!
Anyway, let's talk about the frog in the pot. Essentially, it's the dynamic that if you put a frog in a pot of room temperature water,it will sit there quite comfortably. If you slowly turn the temperature up it will stay there until boiled to death. Of course if you were to put the same frog into already scalding water, it would immediately jump out, saving itself.

This seems analogous to how Christians have come to accept how  society has become "frayed at the edges". What I mean by this is that you'll hear a lot (well, some), protest regarding issues such as abortion, stem-cell research, freedom of speech, and others. While this is all necessary, where is all the objection to more subtle evidence of the "fraying".

Examples of this would be (alright, I know I'm going to get beat up over this!), the prevalence of tattoos. I am not that old. However, when I was in high school, the only tattoos you ever saw were on bikers (think Harleys, not Tour de France), servicemen (think army, not washing machine), or convicts (hopefully ex-cons, otherwise that would mean you were in jail too). Very possibly, if you did see any of these it was via the movies, not even in real life. I am not saying tattoos are evidence of a reprobate lifestyle and eternal damnation, and I am not going to use Leviticus as biblical evidence for tattoo condemnation, and I am not referring to those who come to Saving Grace after they have accumulated tattoos. But it sure seems illogical and/or egocentric to deliberately and permanently have your body marked;  as a professing Christian. The questionable nature of this practice is only heightened as the number of tattoos increase, the location becomes more vulgar/bizarre, or the message is divisive. Picture someone with multiple tattoos, including one on their neck saying: Justin Bieber Rocks; all painted after becoming born again. When did this become acceptable? Who turned up the stove slowly enough so we are not upset having to look at body paint everywhere we go? We wouldn't have to if the only people who had them were those who belonged to the aforementioned categories traditionally associated with them. I'm pretty sure that every other clerk with them (these days do you have to have a tattoo to work with the public?), is not an ex-con, member of a biker gang, or ex-service personnel. I worked in corrections for over 14 years and can tell you that inmates without tattoos are the rare exception. As a Christian think about this before you go out a shell out the bucks (oh yeah, aren't we supposed to be good stewards?), to get body "art". What you say, wear, do, and get painted on your body matters. Oh,by the way, I did plenty of stupid things before I got saved. I'm just lucky that there isn't any outward physical evidence of it.

As Christians, let's not prejudge people with tattoos, but let's also not ignore that at one time society recognized this as a crude practice, primarily limited to the fringes of a polite society. I miss a polite society where most people were considerate enough not to use foul language in public, play loud vulgar music, walk around in different stages of undress, and not have tattoos from their toes to their heads.

Christians; Think Before You Ink

Sunday, May 10, 2015

The Alpha Post

Well, I've been threatening to do this for awhile; now I have. I'm blogging. You may reasonably conclude the world needs another blogger like it needs another video involving law enforcement and sketchy characters, but no matter.

Maybe this is less about what the world needs (anyway, Dionne Warwick already touched on that back in the 60's), and more about what I need,  or maybe feel compelled to do. I mean, just because there is a lot of something, doesn't mean there isn't room for one more (look at infomercials).

Let me elaborate. Swim Against the Tide is about looking at the state of affairs through the prism that God has given us called the Bible. And as the tide of the world unquestionably flows stronger toward Gomorrah, we as Jesus followers must find ourselves continually swimming against it.

This blog is intended for Christians, so yes, I will be preaching to the choir. However, unbelievers viewing this are more than welcome.  Bearing that in mind, I don't intend to be "preachy" (whatever that means), nor do I plan on slathering on chapter and verse to support every perspective I adopt. Anyone with a rudimentary familiarity with the Bible will be able to be a Berean and check it out for themselves. What I do intend to do is to inject Biblical reality into societal issues. Although ultimately these are issues with eternal consequences; some humor, and even sarcasm, will  be forthcoming - because that's how I roll.

The world (specifically the United States), we live in may be "slicker" than ever, with all our wonderful gadgets and distractions, but it is also more ill-mannered and epicurean. No wonder God's creation does not speak to more people; their not listening (or looking). They're too busy with heads bent over their "smart" phones listening or watching something else. "Be still and know that I am God...", is a hard sell amidst the constant din most find themselves.

Upcoming posts will specifically address topics  alluded to here. Hopefully I'll find some kindred souls, and maybe a few amens.

Dan